Unprofessionalism

24 Dec 2013

Acting professionally and being a professional are different things.

One year ago, we released Party Monster, our fun little DJ app for parties and road trips. We take our work seriously, but we included something a little unprofessional: by default, the app wouldn’t play Nickelback. Here’s what reviewers had to say about it:

“You know you want to check out an app with a “Refuse to Play Nickelback” preference setting.” - John Gruber, Daring Fireball

“There’s a very clever option in the app’s settings, enabled by default, that refuses playback of Nickelback songs.” - Preshit Deorukhkar, Beautiful Pixels

“Party Monster offers the single best settings option ever: Refuse to Play Nickelback. It’s on by default. Canada, we forgive you.” - Dave Wiskus, iMore

It was a lot of fun to get the positive feedback. People appreciated our silly little easter egg! Well, some people appreciated it.

“Soooooo creative.” - @nickelbackers

“I am very unhappy with this as it is not there right to band certain artists especially when you have paid for the app and created all the playlists for your wedding. Very displeased!” - Junomei, one star app reviewer

“Congratulations on subtracting functionality for the sake of a circlejerk, you obnoxious cunt.” - eifersucht12a

Wait, what? We did something unprofessional and knew we might get some blowback, but I was surprised by that last one. I shouldn’t have been - this is what happens when you reveal to the awkward truth: you’re a human being.

Pissing people off

The behaviours that make us human are not professional. Honesty, frankness, humour, emotionality, embracing the moment, speaking up for what you believe, affection, sincerity. Quoting extremely offensive trolls. These are all things that will make some people love you and others hate you. When you get more attention, these aspects of your personality fuel the inevitable backlash. As your audience grows, the chance of any given action triggering criticism asymptotically approaches 100%.

“Look on Twitter, look at the @-reply stream of a celebrity, or somebody with 100,000 followers or more. Look at Gruber’s @-replies. Look at anybody who has a large following who says anything of any value ever. You’re going to see hundreds and hundreds of people calling them an asshole and calling them an idiot.” - Marco Arment, ATP 41

It’s particularly bad if you speak or write on a broad range of topics. If you write about a very narrow topic, for example Objective-C, you won’t get as much crap. People will only listen if they’re interested in Objective-C.

If you have a broad range of passions, however, you will subject fans of some passions (say, productivity) to your other passions (say, comics). Some of your audience will be annoyed because they don’t care about comics, and won’t be equipped to have a thoughful conversation on that topic. Similarly, we get shit when our otherwise useful music app refuses to play Nickelback. It would be a lot easier on us if we all just stuck to the script.

Staying human

> “If you want to get better at what you do, and you want to make better things, you are going to have to make your peace with the fact that it’s going to be out there. People are going to think what they think of it, and you have to decide what their response to it has to do with what you decide to do next. I would hope that strangers not liking what you do is not going to stop you from doing things you want in the way that you want. Until you can make your peace with that, there’s a pretty good chance that you’re not going to make that much cool stuff. “ - Merlin Mann, Back to Work #149

People with audiences have three potential strategies for surviving the shit generated by being a human with an audience:

  1. Resistance: Developing a thick skin. A better way of describing it is learning how to filter feedback in a way that helps you grow, but discards trolling and lashing out. Usually this involves only paying attention to criticism when it comes from somebody you know and trust. If a celebrity comes off like a jerk, this is often what’s happening.
  2. Split Personality: Being able to turn on and off the “professional version” of yourself in “professional” settings. Many rock stars have an alter ego, perhaps under an entirely different name. This alter ego isn’t political, divisive, emotional, or anything else that might be controversial. One may get their unprofessional side out via a joke tumblr, or by maintaining a crazy alter ego that uses different punctuation.
  3. Reclusion: Pulling back when things get too hot to handle. When somebody’s ego isn’t able to handle the grief they’re getting, that person can either slowly or abruptly pull back from the spotlight to save themselves. Occasionally this is for the best, but sometimes it’s a tragedy, as in the case of Kathy Sierra.

All three of these strategies are valid. All three of these are preferable to taking all available feedback, and reducing what you do to boring pablum that isn’t worth giving feedback on at all. We can take our work seriously while still being ourselves.

This year, I’ve been more myself in public, and taken more opportunities to be unprofessional. Unprofessional in the best possible sense: taking my humanity just as seriously as I take my profession. It generates a lot more feedback, positive and negative. Still, I encourage you to try it.